Monday, June 4, 2018

4 June 2018

For some reason, my email is limiting me to sending this to 4 people, so spreading it to others who'd like to hear would be great.

This was probably the hardest week that I've had so far in my mission. Friday was really the hardest part of it all. We've not found many investigators this week, and so we had a big day of tracting planned out. 7 hours of it. From this, we ended up with only 8 doors being opened at all, 3 Hispanics, and only one of those was interested at all in learning more. However, Saturday helped make up for that. It was one of the best days I've had out here. It started out by going out tracting from 10-12 and not being able to find anyone who would open the door, let alone Hispanics. So we decided to go store contacting. We found a little Mexican store, and walked around it for a minute. A girl who worked there walked up to us and asked if we needed any help. (In English) I responded in Spanish asking the price of a drink. She told me, but then commented on how good my Spanish was and asked how I learned. We then talked about how we were serving missions for our church and taught her a bit about the Restoration. She wasn't super interested, but we gave her a card with the church address and time it started on it, as well as our number. As Elder Hull was checking out, the lady at the counter asked us how we learned Spanish and so we went through the whole missionary spiel again. She immediately turned to the girl we'd been talking to earlier and said something to the effect of how she needed to go to church because she hadn't been in a long time. She then told us to give the first girl a card from our church, and then she demanded that the first goal go to our church and how she would go with her.  We think she was the first girl's mom, but we weren't sure and didn't ask. They didn't make it to church this week, but we hope they'll make it soon. After lunch, we went out to go knock some more doors, but decided instead to go and visit someone who we hadn't been able to get up with before. As we're walking down this trailer park, an ice cream truck is driving by us on the street. Right after he passed us, he leaned out the window and yelled, gesturing to the other side of the truck, "Hey, c'mere!" Fearing getting yelled at, but hoping for ice cream, we walked around it. Inside was a Hispanic man dressed as Mario who asked if we wanted slushies. We told him that we didn't have any money with us, but he said, "Es gratis!" We glady accepted our free slushies. As he was giving us them, a little kid who Elder Hull recognized as the investigator's nephew walked up to get some ice cream. We asked if Christian (the investigator) was home and he told us that he was. So we went and talked to him about baptism, and he said that he would read the Book of Mormon and pray about it and Joseph Smith and if he should get baptized. That was pretty great. We also found out that his member friend was taking him to church the next day as well. We knocked doors for a while and then headed to dinner at the chapel, which was followed by a musical devotional from a missionary who had served here about 4 years ago. It was really good. Afterwards, we went back out to Knightdale and were about to knock some more, but felt like we should go visit someone else who had previously brushed off our return appointment. We did, and not only was he there, he invited us right in! We got to talk to him and his wife about the Restoration, and by the end he asked how could get a Book of Mormon. He was surprised when I handed him the copy I was holding, and promised that he would read and pray about it. He also said that he'd go to church. He didn't show up, but we have another appointment with him to check up with him on. That finished up the night! It was pretty great. 
Earlier in the week I went on exchanges with another elder in my district. It was pretty interesting. We only found one person who was interested, but we found some very interesting people. The first one we met was a Satanist. That was very odd, and neither of us knew quite how to respond to him. He said that he was too busy to talk, and wished us a good day. Of course, we could see the game running in the background. Very busy. Later that night, we got caught by a group of drunk and possibly high people. One of them kept asking us if smoking weed was a sin, another kept spouting off about how Elon Musk was a prophet because he was going to take people to Mars, and the other one was mixed between yelling at the prophet one about him not being a prophet, how what he liked to do was drink, smoke, swear a lot, and **** *******, telling us how he used to be a Jehovah's Witness but now wasn't, and him telling us that we hadn't answered his questions. We had answered them to the best of our ability, but they were really weird and didn't make much sense at all. We excused ourselves from that as expiditiously as possible, but it took a while to extricate ourselves from that. It was a mix between unnerving because it was a drunk man getting up in our faces and really funny because of the kind of things that the Elon Musk prophet one was saying, which also included how "weed couldn't be bad because they found it growing on King Solomon's grave." That was just a weird day. Other than that, I can't think of much more that happened this week. Oh yeah, we did  find an abandoned lawnmower thrown into a creekbed and Christian just had his bearded dragon hanging out on his porch. And the closest parking job I've ever seen without them touching. A thick piece of paper might not make it through that. 






Tuesday, May 29, 2018

29 May 2018

Sorry, this one is going to be really short. I have to type this on a phone keyboard today and I can't send it out to the whole group of people that I normally do. But yes, I'm back in Raleigh and it was tons of fun showing up and getting to talk with everyone again. What was really cool was one of my recent converts offered to drive a long ways just to bring us to his house so we can have dinner with him. It's great to be back! I'm actually living in and working in Knightdale, but we still go to Raleigh 3rd ward. Other than that, not much has been going on. We've spent a lot of time tracting and we found some cool people. We also have had to go to many more meetings now, but we finally have the whole district leader thing figured out. Kinda. We'll get it eventually. The picture is from an ancient artifact that we didn't know still existed, the rumored "Time Clock."

Monday, May 21, 2018

21 May 2018

So the big news of this week is that transfers is tomorrow, and I've already found out that I'm going back to Raleigh 3rd ward! I'm going to be in the 3C area that I've already served in, but only for two weeks. That was after the lovely bike crash that took out my trainer, and I'm going to be serving with my MTC companion again, which is really funny. Partly because that's who I was with for those two weeks as well. So it'll be very interesting being together for the third time, in the same area. The downside to that is that I'm going to be co-district leader with him. That is more responsibility than I want to have to deal with, especially because it involves me speaking a lot more in public than I like. Which is at all, so... I'm sure I'll be able to live through that. It'll be great! The way I got told scared me though. We got a text from President James late Saturday night that said to call him as soon as we could. Which either means that something terrible has happened or that you're going to train, have a leadership position or serve with someone who is generally known to be a hard missionary to get along with. None of those sounded desirable, and so I was just praying that he'd ask for Elder Turner. He did not. And that was when he told me that. But hey, at least I get to know how I'll serve with and where I'm serving, so that's going to be great.
In other news, we just knocked a whole bunch this week. It's been raining, so driving in trailer parks is more like driving a submarine. It's pretty interesting. We found some pretty great people who seem like they're going to have a lot of potential. We got to share the Restoration with them, and one of them was just so great. His name is Ricardo and he just seems perfect! The Spirit was so strong! There's a lot of stuff that's going to be going on next transfer here. 
And then just random stuff. 
 

These are the things that you see in Fayetteville.


Probably my favorite family in Raeford, the Rentas.


That pie that we won and finally got.

And the best piece of beef jerky that I've ever seen. This is because my comp felt pressured into buy it because the only exit that the store had was past the cashiers. It was pretty funny, but all he's done is hung it up on the wall, not eat it. In the package, of course.
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Monday, May 14, 2018

14 May 2018

Well, Mother's Day was the only big thing that really happened this week, so... yeah...
Saturday was really the big day for craziness. We had originally planned to head to a city called Red Springs, but a member called us and convinced us to go to a flea market that he said there were a lot of Hispanics at. Because we're hurting for miles, we agreed. (It's only about 1/3 of the distance of Red Springs.) As we were walking up, I noticed that all of the signs on the fence were in Spanish, not English. So that was a good sign. We walked in and there were people everywhere, but there was an issue: They thought we were the police and would flinch and look away every time that we passed. So that made talking to people hard. We started talking to one person at a stand, but then she spent the next 15 minutes deflecting any gospely topics and trying really hard to sell me these home theater speakers. And she wanted $175 for them. They were not worth that much. So we made some really terrible excuses and walked away. We also got yelled at by someone as we passed by, from some Native American booth. Turns out that he's gone to our church a lot before and "was ordained an elder in our preistship." So that was interesting. And then we also saw someone nearly get shot, but that's a long story. Anyways, we also had a Mother's Day activity and that was weird. We ended up getting an additional 19 water bottles by the end of that, and trust me, we didn't have any problems with having enough water. That's the only picture that I have of this week, sorry. 
On Monday we had a Zone Activity, and that was fun. We did kickball and Ultimate Frisbee, and I ended up really sore. That was probably because I ran a few hundred yards with a 175 pound elder on my back. That kinda hurt. Other than that, it wasn't a very special week. Everyone skipped out on their appointments. Still trying to work hard. Just as a word of reminder, (because I know that Mom will forget) transfers are on the 22nd.

Monday, May 7, 2018

7 May 2018

Well, there isn't too much to report on this one. First, the vlog was discontinued immediately as I found out that it would take over 3 hours to upload the videos. And I don't have that much time. Soo... yeah. Anyways, with the week. So not much happened. The biggest thing that did happen was when we had the police called on us. Again. That never happened before Raeford, but now it's increasing in frequency. But we were knocking in some neighborhood and I saw a police car drive by and I mentioned to my companion that they had probably been called on us. A half hour later, two police cars came up to us and the officers got out. They were friendly enough, and asked for our ID. We had a brief chat, and it seems like whenever they check the plates on the car and see that they're registered to the church, they suddenly can relax a lot. I nearly gave them a card, but decided against it. It's just contacting on hard mode, right? Anyways, the only other big news is that I got a haircut. Nothing too crazy, but it was shorter than I had expected. Whoops. But yeah, it's not been too crazy of a week. And we broke a lightbulb. After our inspection. And tomorrow we have Zone Conference, so they'll be pictures next week.

Monday, April 30, 2018

30 April 2018

So, I decided to try to start a Vlog type of deal here. It's pretty weird, and is basically just me talking about my day in a video format. I'll share the Google Drive folder here, but don't expect too much out of it. I just sit there and ramble. If you want greater detail on how my week went and not just what I can remember by Monday, that's the place to go. Anyways, now for the week.
So, Thursday was an interesting day. We had a few appointments to go to in St. Pauls, which is the furthest city away that we actually work in. (Got to love the mile limit.) So we were knocking doors for a little while but then we decided to move on to another area. Well, we took a wrong turn while we were walking, and ended up in downtown St Pauls, about 2-2 1/2 miles from where we parked. Whoops. So, we figured that we could just head back to the car and knock some doors on the way back. As we turned around to head back, a police officer pulled up. He asked us if we had parked our car where we had left it, and we said yes. Apparently we had accidentally parked on somebody's property (it didn't look that way, but oh well) and the owner had called the police. The officer had gone to the car and checked the plate, but then saw that it belonged to the church. So he knew that it was missionaries and just kind of drove around town looking for us. He found us and just asked us to move the car. As soon as possible. So that made knocking on the way back kind of not going to happen. Especially because as he pulled away, another officer pulled in behind him and demanded to know if we were soliciting. We said we weren't, we were missionaries. He gave us a dirty look and then drove away. I liked the first one a lot more. After that, we decided to speed walk all the way to the car and get there before we got towed or something. We had barely started off when someone yelled at us from the stairs leading up to his apartment, "Hey! Are y'all the Jehovah's Witnesses?" We said no, and he said sorry, he just wanted someone to pray for him. We looked at each other and told him, "Well, we are missionaries!" So we walked up and he explained that his life had been pretty rough lately and that he just wanted some comfort. He then stuck out his fists as if he wanted us to fist bump him. We obliged. At which point he looked at us weirdly and said, "Oh, so you don't pray?" We were confused, but reassured him that we did and just weren't always familiar with the different ways that people prayed. So we put our fists together and Elder Turner prayed. During the whole prayer, this person was prayer talking a lot. It's always pretty funny when happens. For those of you unfamiliar with this phenomena, it is when someone begins to "help out" with the prayer by offereing commentary during the prayer, usually in the form of saying things such as, "Yes, Jesus" or "Thank you, Father" commonly repeated throughout the prayer. It was an interesting experience. After that, we kind of booked it back to the car, which thankfully was still there and ticketless. Thanks again, first police officer. 
On Friday? we had a lesson with our only investigator who has a baptismal date. It went pretty well, and he still seems to be interested in learning more and progressing. We got to teach him the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and he committed to live it. We committed him to go to church with us as well, but he texted us the morning of and told us that he couldn't make it, so that was pretty sad. 
On Saturday, we used a lot of miles. We had to go to Red Springs for an appointment, which is pretty far away. It went fairly well, and she seems to be open to learning. And then we had to go to Hope Mills to help out one of our members. And then back to Red Springs for more knocking and appointments. Still, it was a pretty good day.
Sunday was pretty cool, mostly because I had to translate. Now, the weird thing about me was that translating from English to Spanish was easy. I could do that no problem. But, going from Spanish to English was nigh impossible. But Elder Clement (who did it before for me) is gone, and this was the first week that our member who normally translates was gone. So it fell to me. I actually wasn't really nervous, which probably helped a lot. The hardest part about translating is that it is a live translation, and so I'm listening to it as it happens and speaking at the same time. The first time I tried this here was three months ago, and I didn't translate much of anything, and passed it off to my comp halfway through the first talk. The branch president's wife afterwards had told me how terrible it was. She's a very straightforward  lady who tells you what's on her mind. But this time I actually had to take over for my comp and translated the entire meeting without a problem. She came up to me afterwards and told me how great I did. So, I'll take that as a sign that I have improved a lot. 
Our district meeting was the only other really interesting thing that happened this week. It was really good, and we had some great role play time. The only issue I have with the role plays is that ever since the role play jar that has everyone's names on slips of paper was introduced, I have been drawn to do it for all but one time. Coincidence? I think not! But we had some really great instructions, and it was just super good overall. And I learned how to use chopsticks, which apparently isn't that hard at all. Also, this might just be the longest email I've sent. 
 



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Sunday, April 29, 2018

23 April 2018

This week just absolutely flew by! I have no idea what on earth is going on with the time. Or my memory. I can't remember anything about this week. So, this one is a short one. The craziest thing that we had was on Thursday. We had four appointments at 10-12 and they were in a city nearly an hour away. So we had to spend the morning way far away and did our weekly planning out at a McDonald's. That was kinda odd. I ordered a cone at one of the kiosks and sat down. My comp was still ordering and giving the kitchen a heart attack. You see, at McDonald's they can see your order in the kitchen from the moment you click on a food item and he was trying to find out which sandwich it lets you put the most bacon on. So he went through the entire menu and took a long time doing it. At one point, a worker came up to him and asked if he knew what he was doing and if he needed help. He didn't know that they could see his order and so he said no. While this was happening, my cone was brought to me. The worker who brought it to me said  "Would it be weird if I said you were cute?" To which I responded, "Uhh... No?" I had no idea how to respond to that, and how do you respond to that as a missionary who can't date? She turned red and then walked away. And then had to come back to give my comp his food. She didn't say a word and wouldn't look up. So that was a little weird. Later that week we found some really interesting people who said that we were the Jehovah's Witnesses and that they already had a Book of Mormon that the JW's had already given them. That was kinda strange too. We're still trying to work with our baptismal date, but he canceled our last appointment. We're still trying with him. 

These are just some random pictures that I got this week. A really funny shirt, a very aspiring pad of paper, and we got the car to 30000 miles. Big news for missionaries.